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    • The Meet
    • Match Making Services
    • About Us
    • The Dating Pool
    • Virtual Singles Events
    • Virtual Classes
    • How it Works
    • Contact Us
    • Dating 101
    • Video Zone
    • The Reading Corner
    • Dating Apps
    • The Dating Derby
    • Home
    • The Meet Membership
    • The Dating Report
    • Privacy Policy
    • A Meet
    • The Three C's
    • Refund Policy
    • Coaching
  • The Meet
  • Match Making Services
  • About Us
  • The Dating Pool
  • Virtual Singles Events
  • Virtual Classes
  • How it Works
  • Contact Us
  • Dating 101
  • Video Zone
  • The Reading Corner
  • Dating Apps
  • The Dating Derby
  • Home
  • The Meet Membership
  • The Dating Report
  • Privacy Policy
  • A Meet
  • The Three C's
  • Refund Policy
  • Coaching

A New Approach to Dating

A New Approach to Dating A New Approach to Dating A New Approach to Dating

Because You Can't Put Chemistry in an Algorithm

Stop Doing What isn't Working

Traditional dating apps do not offer  the elements that are required to find suitable matches to date. Instead of endless scrolling and frustration, we use a hands on, real life approach.

Created by a Certified Dating Coach

After years of watching singles become frustrated and disappointed, it became obvious that those missing elements are crucial to the successful matchmaking process. Some things are irreplicable and nothing can and will replace those elements. A real life person who is able to decipher body language, expressions, and feelings. Without these elements, a successful match is like trying to find that needle in the haystack. 


Meet the coach who started it all because she  is not a fan of dating apps but is a fan of helping people succeed.

Chemistry Vs Algorithms

The actual chemistry is a combination of things. On paper it may look like the perfect equation but without those things that create that chemistry between two people, it's nothing more than an educated guess without factoring important elements. 


Chemistry is organic and cannot be forced.  Even the best matches on paper do not guarantee  that special spark between two people, that "thing" that draws people together and what makes everything seem effortless. This is where traditional dating apps fall short. Nobody can predict if two people are going to have that chemistry, however, real life engagement improves the odds significantly.

Compatibility

The chemistry is what attracts and draws two people together and compatibility is what keeps them together.  Compatibility is the center of a relationship, it's made from the fundamental traits of each person, the things that align them and create the bond.


This is a very important part of a relationship, shared core values, communication style, lifestyle habits, and so much more. Compatibility is the nucleus of the relationship.

We Get to Know You

Filling out basic information is a good start but there is so much more than how you answer a bunch of questions. We have a questionnaire that is created with specific questions which gives us a foundation but there is so much more to it. Our process for our members is unique and unmatched.  We do virtual meetings with our clients where we can get a real view of the person you are, the little things that make you who and what you are, that's where the chemistry comes from. 

Real Life Events

We offer our clients several different options, things that will keep you out of that endless scrolling, we do at least two live  virtual events each week for singles. These events are designed to offer entertainment while allowing singles to get to know each other without any pressure.  Our live events are interactive so our clients have the option of participating or simply watching.  A few times a month we will do generation specific virtual events for singles. 

Your Information

Unlike those dating apps, we value your privacy and we will not share or sell any of your information. We purposely do not collect identifying information.  If we have a potential match for you, we will contact you and set up a meet if you are interested. 

A Meet

We provide this free service when we feel that two people may enjoy getting to know each other. We contact both parties and get their approval to do a meet and we schedule a virtual meeting between the two parties and a dating coach. We do this  to eliminate that awkward stage of meeting someone new. After the scheduled meet each party will decide if they want to exchange contact info. If both parties agree, the dating coach will send each of the parties the contact info along with a first name. After that has been completed, the parties will move forward on their own but we will still be available to answer any questions. 


We do this for many reasons and we feel that it's a great way for people to be able to remove any expectations and feel more free to be themselves. Since no contact info is exchanged, there is no worry about someone harassing or bothering someone who is not interested.  We strongly suggest using an alternate phone number.


All singles over the age of 18 are welcome to join our free  dating pool. We do not collect identifying information so there is no downside but you know if we find someone who may suit you, we will contact you.

Best of Both Worlds

With us you will get a dating coach and matchmaking services all in one. We will be available to answer questions, help you with finding suitable people to date, and be the best version of yourself. 

All of our clients will have the option to download The Dating Handbook free.

Attachment Style

Attachment style is the way you connect, bond, and relate to other people emotionally in relationships. It's  one of the biggest factors in how people manage romantic relationships. Knowing your attachment style is important when looking for quality people to date.

In Depth View of Attachment Style

The Root of Attachment style

Attachment style is formed as a child based on childhood experiences of how a child's caregiver responded to the child's  emotional needs and it continues to shape adult romantic relationships. 

Is it possible to change your attachment style?

Yes, it can be changed due to experiences or by making a decision to change it through some repetitive training. 

Attachment style and dating

We understand attachment styles and why it is so important to take this into consideration when matching people. We will give you a complete report on your attachment style as well as things to avoid, a complete roadmap to help you find success in dating.

Attachment Styles

Secure Attachment

Anxious Preoccupied attachment

Anxious Preoccupied attachment

Comfortable with closeness, trusts easily. Is able to communicate openly, healthy balance of giving and receiving.

Anxious Preoccupied attachment

Anxious Preoccupied attachment

Anxious Preoccupied attachment

Belief that people will leave them, needs constant reassurance and fears abandonment. Hyper sensitive to changes in partner's behaviors. 


People with this attachment style are  typically a people pleasers with low self esteem who may emotionally dump on their partner.  

avoidant dismissive attachment

disorganized. fearful avoidant attachment

disorganized. fearful avoidant attachment

Believes that they are only able to rely on themselves, values independence over closeness. Avoids emotional intensity, difficulty expressing needs, often feels trapped with too much attention and intimacy.


People with this attachment style usually have a strong desire for independence and be somewhat uncomfortable with emotional intimacy and a  tenancy to suppress or deny emotions and needs.

disorganized. fearful avoidant attachment

disorganized. fearful avoidant attachment

disorganized. fearful avoidant attachment

They seek closeness but pushes it away. Struggles with trust. Often swings back and forth between anxious and avoidance behaviors.



This attachment style is normally somewhat inconsistent and unpredictable when it comes to relationships. They may have strong desire for closeness but fear rejection so they push and pull. 

Don't Allow Your Attachment Style Keep You From Finding Some

Attachment Style

This can be changed with some effort and desire to change it. By changing your mindset, you can free yourself from this prison and become your authentic self and be the best you can be.

Classes and Coaching for Changing Attachment Style

We offer both one on one coaching as well as  virtual classes to help you change your attachment style and become successful in dating and relationships.

One on one attachment style coaching

This is a six week one on one  attachment style coaching package. You will go through through the  entire process of changing your attachment style and become a secure attachment style with the a coach guiding the process and taking you through each step with  virtual meetings, phone calls,  emails, texts and workbook for you to be able to achieve your goal of changing your attachment style. A coach will help open your mind to change. Coaches encourage through positivity and be there to help you through any struggles so that you can be the best version of yourself. 


We offer several options for this coaching package with a discount option for one single payment of $500  as well as stretching the program out to 12 weeks to have 6  biweekly payments of $125 or 6 weekly payments of $100. 

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